November 24, 2024

Being Gray

Being Gray

I have always tried to just blend in, comfortable to never be the center of attention, just a face in the crowd. When I was younger I didn’t know that what I was doing was “being gray” but in part it was. You see, I was just trying not to be noticed and that act, in and of itself, can bring attention. “being gray,” means more than not being noticed, it means doing what is expected of the majority of people in any given circumstance, when you are in public.
 
How you carry yourself matters, before and especially after an event.

As I mentioned, part of “being gray” means blending in and not drawing attention to yourself. For instance, there are some people in the preparedness/survival demographic that love the tactical gear. If there is ever any social unrest, wearing this gear screams “I have cool stuff, hit me on the head and take it please.” There are many ways to conceal that you are armed.

I’ll cover situational awareness more thoroughly in another article, but for now I’ll just say this; being discreetly aware of everything around you is a good skill to have now; it will be a must after any event.

The following is an example of what I mean by discreetly aware. There is a fantastic teriyaki place in the food court in the mall. When my wife and I go there I make a point of sweeping the room, giving everyone a quick once over. If I see a potential “problem child” they may get another look. I don’t stare, I only glance or keep an eye on them with my peripheral vision. If anyone catches me looking at them I either smile or give them a quick nod and then go back to what I was doing. I’ll scan the food court while we eat and talk. My wife does the same thing.

This is all before an event. Tensions run higher after an event of any kind. This makes it more important to be aware of surroundings and even more important to be discreet. If you’re the proverbial gazelle, non-discreetly looking around, you have just told the lion that you are food, that you have a reason for being jumpy.
 
Methods of “being gray” can change depending on pre-event, during and post-event.

Pre-Event
I do not recommend you share that you are prepping with just anyone. There are a couple reasons for this. First, there are some people that for many different reasons just don’t get it.

Before I built the website, while I was still trying to figure out what God wanted me to do, my wife and I went forward for prayer at church. I mentioned that I was feeling led to help people in terms of preparedness. The look the man gave while he shook his head almost made me regret going forward. His wife, however, didn’t even stumble but only began to pray for us. There have also been Christian forums where preparedness is brought up and I see comments about “not trusting in the Lord” etc.

Not only might there be judgment, but the more people that know you prep and decide not to prep for themselves, the more people you will have to decide to either feed from your very limited preps or turn away hungry. I have read about some Preppers that store a little extra to give to people and then tell them not to come back. While this might make the giver feel a sense of helping someone out, the recipient will soon be hungry again and now knows that you had enough food to share.

It is also a good idea to keep your preps in different places in your house. This way if someone sees some of your preps, they won’t know the extent of them.
 
During or After an Event

As I mentioned, after an event, methods of “being gray” may change. Here is an example; let’s say that the breadbasket of the United States is struck with drought and wildfires this year, like Russia was last year . As a result we are experiencing food shortages. To stop price gouging the government sets limits, both on price and quantity of food that each family can purchase per day. You have been prepping for a while and have a few months of food stored for your family. You are faced with two choices. They are listed below.
 
Choice one:

As mentioned above, you have a few months of food stored for your entire family. Since you do not want to feel like you are taking from someone who wasn’t as prudent as you, you decide to skip your daily allotments. After a few weeks, some of your neighbors begin to talk amongst themselves. They notice that no one has seen your family at the grocery store but no one in your family appears to be losing any weight like everyone else.
 
Choice two:

As in the other example, you do not want to feel like you are taking from others that were less prudent than yourself. But you also do not want to potentially put your family at risk, so you and your family do as everyone else is. You go to the grocery store and stand in the same lines for the same daily rations. You also might skip a meal here and there to lose a bit of weight just like everyone else. If you feel some guilt for taking your daily allowed rations from the grocery store, under the cover of darkness, bless a family with an extra ration every night and add a note asking them not to say anything to anyone so that it can continue.

As we have seen in Tunisia, Egypt and some other Middle Eastern countries, people become unpredictable and can become violent when they are desperate. Being hungry is a quick way to become desperate. In choice one, your neighbors might not come to your house asking questions but the person standing behind them, who lives a few blocks away, just might and they might do more than ask a few questions.
 
Blown OPSEC (Operational Security) or No More Gray

Once your OPSEC is blown, you’re in a tough spot. Many Christians (myself included) feel the need to help as much as they can. While this is admirable, our resources and preps are finite.

You might be thinking that I, personally, have thrown OPSEC out the window and in large part you are correct. When I felt called to create this website I thought about not having my name attached to it but then decided that no one would take the site seriously if I went by some nickname like Mr. Prepper.

Please don’t misunderstand, I don’t think that I am Mr. Center-Stage- Big-Shot-Prepper-Guy, but even being as public as I am makes me pretty uncomfortable. I can take solace in knowing that the vast majority of people that read this don’t know who I am or where I live. Those that read this and do know, well, they should be storing their own preps and might be treated in the same way as the bridesmaids that didn’t bring enough oil if they show up expecting a hand out.

As I am writing this and thinking about how much it would hurt to turn someone away, I am reminded about the motto of this site and the verse I took it from. Proverbs 27:12 People had access to the same information that I did. They see the same things going on in the news. They see prices going up at the grocery store. The difference is that I decided to be prudent and they ultimately will have to face their hardship. This might seem heartless, but Christ told the disciples in Mathew 10:14 “If a village doesn’t welcome you or listen to you, shake off the dust of that place from your feet as you leave.”

I think that we should all help, as we feel led and continue to pray for guidance and wisdom.

 
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Lessons From Tunisia and Egypt

I wrote most of this article before the rallies and protest that took place this week in Wisconsin. While the protests have been fairly peaceful so far, let’s pray they stay that way. I’ll cover some things that will help mitigate their impact if in fact things do take a turn for the worse.

There are quite a few things we can learn from the coup d’etat in Tunisia and Egypt. Before I cover the lessons, let me cover some of the event’s that took place. I am not an expert on Tunisia or Egypt, but have done a fair bit of reading on them as many have recently. These are two modern cultures, Egypt being the most populated African country and Tunisia having Africa’s largest economy. The research I did showed that both have populations of 20-40% that use facebook and other social media. In fact facebook, Twitter and You Tube were used extensively to coordinate the three R’s of a coup, Rallies, Riots and Revolution. Here are a couple of articles that show how social media was used. Tunisia: The Facebook Revolution and Egyptian government fears a Facebook revolution.

Citizens of both countries were unhappy with their government, but the spark that started the rallies and riots in Tunisia came in mid-December 2010 when a man who had his vegetable and fruit cart confiscated because he didn’t have a permit for it, lit himself on fire in protest. This led to protests, rallies and soon riots, ending in revolution. The story in Egypt is much the same, but the government exerted a bit more force and clamped down a bit more on media.

According to the Telegraph, “Egypt and Tunisia usher in the new era of global food revolutions”. “The surge in global food prices since the summer – since Ben Bernanke signaled a fresh dollar blitz, as it happens – is not the underlying cause of Arab revolt, any more than bad harvests in 1788 were the cause of the French Revolution. Yet they are the trigger, and have set off a vicious circle”

To understand this, you need to realize that in America we spend roughly 10-13% on food, in many other countries they spend 30%-50%, so when prices are increased they often do not have the money to afford paying for food.

The police stepped aside, some of whom joined protesters, leaving the security of neighborhoods to the people who lived there. These people defended their property, places of business and loved ones with sticks, knives and clubs.

In an attempt to control the masses and limit their communication, Egypt Shows How Easily Internet Can Be Silenced, I’m a fairly tech savvy guy. I would not have guessed it was as easy as they showed it to be. The Egyptian government also shut down Al Jazeera bureau..

As the rallies and riots continued, “Food staples started to run out in Egypt”, “Egyptians stock up on food, water as protests rage”. The banks were closed and with the Internet down, many businesses were forced to be “cash only”. “Egyptians Line Up for Cash as Banks Open, Currency Plummets to 2005 Low”
 
Lessons To Learn

The first question we need to ask is “could it happen here in America?” I don’t think we will ever see another violent revolution, at least I pray not. I think that there are a few triggers that could set any society up for civil unrest and riots.

What are these triggers? An increasingly high unemployment rate, a populace that is dissatisfied with our government, high oil prices and inflation levels that force a larger percent of income to provide food, or food shortages, as the end result is the same, people either eat less or not at all.
 
Unemployment

Our current level of unemployment is 9.8%. This does not factor in those under employed or those who have stopped looking for employment. The numbers get worse when you look at the percentage of unemployed youth, who will soon be out of school for the summer and looking for non-existent jobs.
 
Political satisfaction

I’m going to try to keep my writings non-political (remember I said “try”). We just had a pretty big upset in this last election. But I’m not kidding myself; I don’t think that just because the republicans took the majority that we’re going to see a huge change. It seems to me that those we’ve elected to lead us don’t often have our best interest in mind.

Obama ‘Internet kill switch’ plan approved by US Senate panel. “The bill also would allow the US president to take emergency actions to protect critical parts of the Internet, including ordering owners of critical infrastructure to implement emergency response plans, during a cyber-emergency. The president would need congressional approval to extend a national cyber-emergency beyond 120 days under an amendment to the legislation approved by the committee.” My question is, who gets to decide what a cyber-emergency is? Another concern is that the President would have the power to shut down segments or the entire Internet for 120 days. This would destroy many companies, the company I work for being one of them.
 
Oil prices

Oil prices are on the rise again, but here are a couple of things to keep in mind. Much like food, Americans are blessed with much lower gas prices than much of the world. In most major European countries they pay around $6.00 a gallon. Our economy is driven by cheap oil and we’re almost to $100 a barrel now. The last time we got this high was in 2008. I paid $4.10 a gallon at its highest back then. You also have to take into account that in one form or another, oil is used in every single thing you use, even if it was the gas used to transport it.
 
Food

As I mentioned above, we in America have been blessed with low food prices so far, but will they stay that way? Here is a secret study from Wal-Mart from a few months ago that showed increasing inflation then. Just yesterday my wife was telling me that the pizza rolls that my boys like have gone up over a dollar in price in the past 3 months. Here is another story called “The Invisible Food Crisis”. “Food prices are going up everywhere. Will they start rising in America, too?” One more that says “Higher Corn Prices Causing Rising Grocery Prices”. Another story that states Explosive’ Food Prices the Biggest Risk. How much wiggle room do you have in your budget? How much wiggle room do you think the 43 Million Who Use Food Stamps have?

I think the chances of the United States ever seeing a coup or another violent revolution are slim. As far as rallies and protests, we had multiple this week in Wisconsin and other states and they were all peaceful. However just last fall there were 30,000 people that showed up “seeking applications for government-subsidized housing” and it turned into a riot, with 62 injured. We also have multiple riots for other reasons, such as sporting events.
 
 
Mob Mentality

Have you heard the term “Mob Mentality”? It means a group that acts together without a previous plan. Let’s take the same protests in Wisconsin or other states and add in rising grocery or gas prices. Now the level of angst and frustration is even higher. People begin to feed off of each other’s emotions. If one person acts out then some in the group might also.

Here are four suggestions for mitigation if something similar happens here;

1. Avoid groups of people that are protesting. The individual people that are protesting might be good people, but remember the mob mentality. You can be a target just by not being a part of the group.

2. Have food stored. I have written extensively on food storage, found in the Preparedness section. There are a few reasons related to the coup’s that make food storage a great idea; increasing prices, food shortages and not needing to go out and get food if there is civil unrest. Even if none of these things happen, imagine the peace of mind that comes from knowing you can feed your family for an extended length of time.

3. Have some cash on hand. If there is a loss of power, ATM’s don’t work and most store cash registers won’t work, nor will credit card machines. Some places might take checks but many don’t when things are “normal”, so I wouldn’t count on it.

4. Know your community. I don’t expect that you will have to join together to chase off any rioters but knowing who you live near is always a good idea.

 
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